(sorry these pictures turned out so blurry, they were taken on a camera phone and ignore the mess in the background)
There was a lite candle on top of the cake. She didn't know what to do so I ended up blowing it out for her and giving her the cake to eat/smash.
She only took a few bites of the actual cake. She did eat quite a bit of the frosting. Once she figured out her fingers where dirty (she can be so prissy at times) she started crying. We headed straight for the bathtub to clean up my messy bessy.